- [ 3237] عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : (( إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتهُ إِلى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ ؛ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا المَلائِكُةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِح ))
( صحيح البخاري )
The Husband and Wife Rights
The Husband and Wife Rights حقوق الزوج والزوجة
Abu Hurairah reported the Prophet (peace be upon him) as saying “When a man calls his wife to come to his bed and she refuses and does not come to him and he spends the night angry, the angels curse her till the morning
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
- (2455) عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : (( لا تَصُومُ امْرَأَةٌ وَبَعْلُهَا شَاهِدٌ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ غَيْرَ رَمضَانَ وَلا تَأْذَن فِي بَيْتِهِ وَهُوَ شَاهِدٌ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِ ))
( سنن أبي داود )
Abu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) as saying
It is not allowable for a woman to keep (voluntary) fast when her husband is present without his permission, and she may not allow anyone to enter his house without his permission
(Sunan Abi Dawud)
- (1159) عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عَنِ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ : (( لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لأَحَدٍ لأَمَرْتُ المَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ))
( جامع الترمذي )
Abu Hurairah narrated that The Prophet said
“If I were to order anyone to prostrate to anyone, then I would order the wife to prostrate to her husband.”
( Jami aTirmidhi )
- (1160) عَنْ طَلْقِ بْنِ عَلِيٍّ رضي الله عنه قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم (( إِذَا الرَّجُلُ دَعَا زَوْجَتَهُ لِحَاجَتِهِ فَلْتَأْتِهِ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ عَلَى التَّنُّورِ ))
( جامع الترمذي )
Talq bin Ali narrated that The Messenger of Allah said
“When a man calls his wife to fulfill his need, then let her come, even if she is at the oven.”
( Jami aTirmidhi )
- (1161) عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ رضي الله عنها قَالَتْ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم (( أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ مَاتَتْ وَزَوْجُهَا عَنْهَا رَاضٍ دَخَلَتْ الجَنَّةَ ))
( جامع الترمذي )
Umm Salamah narrated that The Messenger of Allah said
“Whichever woman dies while her husband is pleased with her, then she enters Paradise.”
( Jami aTirmidhi )
- (1162) عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : (( أَكْمَلُ المُؤمِنِيْنَ إِيْمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا ؛ وِخَيارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنَسَائِهِمْ خُلُقًا ))
( جامع الترمذي )
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported
Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, “The believers who show the most perfect Faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives”
( Jami aTirmidhi )
- (1850) عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ حَيْدَةَ القُشَيْرِيِّ رضي الله عنه : أَنَّ رَجَلاً سَأَلَ النَّبَيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم : مَاحَقُّ المَرٍأَةٍ عَلَى الزَّوْجِ قَالَ : (( أَنْ يُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمْ ؛ وَأَنْ يَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَى ؛ وَلَا يَضْرِبِ الوَجْهَ ؛ وَلَا يُقَبِّحْ ؛ وَلَا يَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي البَيْتِ ))
( سنن ابن ماجه )
It was narrated from Hakim bin Muawiyah, from his father, that
a man asked the Prophet(peace be upon him): “What are the right of the woman over her husband?” He said: “That he should feed her as he feeds himself and clothe her as he clothes himself; he should not strike her on the face nor disfigure her, and he should not abandon her except in the house (as a form of discipline).” (Hassan)
(Sunan Ibn Majah)
- (1855) عن عبدالله بن عمروا رضي الله عنهما أَنَّ رَسُولَ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ : (( إِنَّمَا الدُّنْيَا مَتَاعٌ وَلَيْسَ مِنْ مَتَاعِ الدُّنْيَا شَيْءٌ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ المَرْأَةِ الصَّالِحَةِ ))
( سنن ابن ماجه )
It was narrated that from Abdullah bin Amr that
the Messenger of Allah said: “This world is but provisions, and there is no provision in this world better than a righteous wife
(Sunan Ibn Majah)
- (1923) عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عَنْ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ : (( لا يَنْظُرُ اللهُ إِلَى رَجُلٍ جَامَعَ امْرَأَتَهُ فِي دُبُرِهَا ))
( سنن ابن ماجه )
It was narrated from Abu Hurairah
that the Prophet said: “Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with his wife in her buttocks.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah)
- (2085) عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رضي الله عنها عَنِ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ : (( لا يَحِلُّ لامْرَأَةٍ أَنْ تَحِدَّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثَ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ ))
( سنن ابن ماجه )
It was narrated from ‘Aishah that
the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a woman to mourn for any deceased person for more than three days, except for her husband.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah)
- (2088) عَنْ عَبْدِاللهِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رضي الله عَنْهُمَا قَالَ : (( كَانَتْ تَحْتِي امْرَأَةٌ وَكُنْتُ أُحِبُّهَا وَكَانَ أَبِي يُبْغِضُهَا فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ عُمَرُ لِلْنَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَمَرَنِي أَنْ أُطَلِّقَهَا فَطَلَّقْتَهَا ))
( سنن ابن ماجه )
It was narrated that ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar said
“I had a wife whom I loved, but my father hated her. ‘Umar mentioned that to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and he ordered me to divorce her, so I divorced her.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah)