- 3004] عَنْ عَبْدِاللهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو رضي الله عنهماقَاَل : جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَاسْتَأذَنَهُ فِي الجِهَادِ فَقَالَ : (( أَحَيٌّ وَالِدَاكَ )) ؟ قَالَ : نَعَمْ قَالَ : (( فَفِيهِمَا فَجَاهِدْ ))
(البخاري ومسلم )
The Parents Rights
The Parents Rights حقوق الوالدين
‘Abdullah ibn ‘Amr said, “A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, wanting to do jihad. The Prophet asked, ‘Are your parents alive?’ ‘Yes,’ he replied. he said, ‘Then exert yourself on their behalf.'”
(Bukhari and Muslim)
- [5971 ] عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه قَالَ :جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عيه وسلم فَقَالَ : يَارَسُولَ مَنْ أَحَقُّ النَّاسِ بحسن صَحَابَتِي ؟ قَالَ : (( أُمُّكَ )) قَالَ ثُمَّ مَنْ ؟ قَالَ (( ثُمَّ أُمُّكَ )) قَالَ ثُمَّ مَنْ ؟ قَالَ (( ثُمَّ أُمُّكَ )) قَالَ ثُمَ مَنْ ؟ قَالَ (( ثُمَّ أَبُوكَ ))
(البخاري ومسلم )
Abu Huraira reported that a person came to Allah, ‘s Messenger (peace be upon him) and said
Who among the people is most deserving of a fine treatment from my hand? He said: Your mother. He again said: Then who (is the next one)? He said: Again it is your mother (who deserves the best treatment from you). He said: Then who (is the next one)? He (the Holy Prophet) said: Again, it is your mother. He (again) said: Then who? Thereupon he said: Then it is your father
(Bukhari and Muslim)
- [5973] عَنْ عَبْدِالله بْنِ عَمْرٍو رضي الله عنهما قاَلَ : قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم : (( إِنَّ مِنْ أَكْبَرِ الكَبَائِرِ أَنْ يَلْعَنَ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ )) قِيلَ : يَا رَسُولَ الله ؛ وَكَيْفَ يَلْعَنُ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ ؟ قَالَ : (( يَسُبُّ الرَّجُلُ أَبَا الرُّجُلِ فَيَسُبُّ أَبَاهُ ؛ وَيسُبُّ أُمَّهُ ))
(صحيح البخاري )
‘Abd Allah b. ‘Amr (b. al-As) reported the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) as saying
A man’s reviling of his parents is one of the grave sins. He was asked : Messenger of Allah! How does a man revile his parents? He replied: He reviles the father of a man who then reviles his father, and he reviles a man’s mother and he reviles his
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
- (2551) عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : (( رَغِمَ أَنْفُهُ ؛ ثُمَ رَغِمَ أَنْفُهُ ؛ ثُمَّ رَغِمَ أَنْفُهُ )) قِيلَ : مَنْ يَارَسُولَ الله ؟ قال : (( مَنْ أَدْرَكَ وَالِدَيْهِ عِنْدَ الكِبَرِ ؛ أَحَدَهُمَا أَوْ كِلَيْهِمَا ؛ ثُمَّ لَمْ يَدْخُلِ الجَنَّةَ ))
( صحيح مسلم )
Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) as saying
Let him be humbled, let him be humbled. It was said: Allah’s Messenger, who is he? He said. He who finds his parents in old age, either one or both of them, and does not enter Paradise
( Sahih Muslim )
- (1903) عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رضي الله عَنْهُمًا قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ : (( إِنَّ أَبَرَّ البِرِّ أَنْ يَصِلَ الرَّجُلُ أَهْلَ وِدِّ أَبِيهِ ))
( جامع الترمذي )
Ibn ‘Umar narrated that
the Prophet said: “Among the most dutiful of deeds is that a man nurture relations with the people his father was friends with.”
( Jami aTirmidhi )
- (1905) عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : (( ثَلاثُ دَعَوَاتٍ مُسْتَجَابَاتٌ لا شَكَّ فِيهِنَّ : دَعْوَةُ المَظْلُومِ وَدَعْوَةُ المُسَافِرِ وَدَعْوَةُ الوَالِدِ عَلَى وَلَدِهِ ))
( جامع الترمذي )
Abu Hurairah [may Allah be pleased with him] narrated
that the Messenger of Allah said: “Three supplications are responded to: The supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication of the parent against his child.”
( Jami aTirmidhi )
- (2088) عَنْ عَبْدِاللهِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رضي الله عَنْهُمَا قَالَ : (( كَانَتْ تَحْتِي امْرَأَةٌ وَكُنْتُ أُحِبُّهَا وَكَانَ أَبِي يُبْغِضُهَا فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ عُمَرُ لِلْنَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَأَمَرَنِي أَنْ أُطَلِّقَهَا فَطَلَّقْتَهَا ))
( سنن ابن ماجه )
It was narrated that ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar said
“I had a wife whom I loved, but my father hated her. ‘Umar mentioned that to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and he ordered me to divorce her, so I divorced her.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah)